Which books have changed your outlook on life?
This post is about the books that helped me to become who I am, by changing the way I understand myself, the world and how to live to make the best use of both. It has been enjoyable to write if more difficult than I anticipated.
For one thing, there is no clear demarcation between books that have influenced me and books that haven’t. I could easily make a case for including another ten titles. Neither are these books the best I’ve ever read, nor are they necessarily ground breaking in their field. Rather they are where I first came across, understood or was convinced by particular ideas. Taken together they don’t encompass my whole philosophy either – some of my core beliefs came from classroom learning or interaction with others. Finally, my memory may be an unfaithful guide. What has stuck with me may be a small part of each book or even an unfair or even incorrect representation of the author’s argument. It’d certainly be interesting to read them again.
So all I can say in truth is that here are some books that I’ve read, and a narrative I’ve constructed about how they affected me.
Bowling Alone, Robert Putnam
This was probably the first popular social science book I read and it had a profound impact on my intellectual journey. It convinced me that social capital – broadly human relationships and trust – are critical both to individual flourishing and well functioning societies. Over time, the book’s biggest impact on me came from its short discussion of how social capital affected human happiness. This was the first time I came across the idea of directly measuring human happiness, and understanding what influences it. This was a novel concept in the mainstream economics of the time, which tended to dismiss the notion that individual happiness (or what economists term ‘utility’) could be directly measured. Over many years I cultivated a deep interest in this subject and went on to read hundreds of articles and books.
Stumbling on Happiness, Daniel Gilbert
This was among the first of those books, and the one I most enjoyed reading. It is focused less on describing what makes people happy and instead explores how, when and why people can be poor judges of what promotes their own happiness. This is a critical idea for economists, since so much of economics relies on the assumption of ‘rational choice’ – individuals acting in their own best interest. This idea – and for me, this book – provide a natural bridge from ‘happiness economics’ to ‘behavioural economics’.
Emotional Intelligence, Daniel Goleman
A bestseller of the 1990s which anticipated much of the behavioural economics ‘revolution’, yet still felt fresh when I read it in 2010. To summarise crudely, the book argues that the human brain has two systems: an ’emotional brain’ and a ‘rational brain’. These are physically as well as conceptually distinct, although interconnected. The emotional brain is triggered by episodes of strong emotion, such as fear or anger. Once triggered, it acts rapidly, much faster than the speed of rational thought, priming the brain and body to respond. Unfortunately it primes us for ancient threats – basically preparing us for fight or flight – and this can be less than helpful in today’s context. For example, an anger response floods the body with hormones that ready us to respond with physical force. A central image in the book is the ‘hijack’ of our rational thought process by our emotions.
The Righteous Mind, Jonathan Haidt
This is the most recent of the books that I’ve read, and as I’ve written this post, I can see links to others in the list. The book is about the diverse moral principles that humans across the world actually hold, not the ones we should hold. I’ve already written extensively about the book, so I will restrict myself to two new insights it gave me. First, it helped me understand how people can hold a broader and still coherent moral framework that goes beyond utilitarianism and protection of individual rights. Second, it convinced me that our moral judgement is usually based on intuition, not logical reasoning. In this sense it reinforced the messages I took from Gilbert and Goleman’s books, as well as others not on the list (such as Daniel Kahnemann’s Thinking Fast, Thinking Slow.
Religion for Atheists, Alain De Botton
I am not a religious person and before reading this book I had some sympathy with the ‘New Atheists’ who see religion as not only nonsense, but also harmful. De Botton, an atheist philosopher, argues here that over the ages, religions have provided invaluable sources of practical wisdom to help people to deal with adversity, live meaningful lives, and live together effectively. Interestingly, this strikes a chord with some of the work of Haidt and Putnam. De Botton also proposes ways that secular institutions can replace what is lost when religion wanes. I can give a real-life example that helped me. My first child was born in February and I was not attracted by a traditional christening, with its fake religosity (for me, at least). However, as De Botton points out, religious ceremonies such as weddings, funerals and christenings serve a valuable purpose in marking and commemorating life-changing events in our life. De Botton proposes that we reimagine these ceremonies in a secular context. For me and my wife, this meant understanding what was important – which was to bring together the families whose legacy our son continues, to nominate and thank his godparents (I haven’t yet heard a good secular name for these!), and to celebrate his good health. We designed our own form of ceremony and it was a wonderful occasion.
Genome, Matt Ridley
Genome was my gateway to understanding evolutionary theory and the concept of the ‘selfish gene’. Which is surprising since by this stage I’d already completed a GCSE in biology. Perhaps I wasn’t listening in class. I was mesmerised by the story of how evolution created humans and the world around us, and with individual genes at centre stage. I began to hypothesise evolutionary explanations for all kinds of human behaviour. This has been fascinating and helpful background for understanding how and why people behave ‘irrationally’, as described in Emotional Intelligence and Stumbling on Happiness. Later, I came to view evolution as a universal algorithm – vary, amplify, select – that shapes economies and social structures too, thanks in particular to Adapt (Tim Harford) and The Origin of Wealth (Eric Beinhocker).
The Death and Life of American Cities, Jane Jacobs
Much of my professional career in public policy has been spent analysing cities, typically through an economics lens, to understand why and how they form, prosper and decline and the benefits and costs this imposes on society. Jacobs wrote the book in 1961 and it remains a fresh and insightful masterpiece. While her approach is informal and somewhat anthropological, I was surprised to find how much it supports and enhances (most of) the arguments of modern urban economics, from a different and altogether more readable perspective. There’s lots to enjoy here. I learned how the physical form of cities matters, how density is created and dissipated and how this enables cities to both support specialised services and enhance social capital. The book also reinforced my view that the idea that cities can be controlled or effectively planned from above is a fallacy, regardless of how much ‘smart’ information city leaders have at their disposal. Although Jacobs never uses the analogy, she clearly describes how cities evolve naturally, in much the same way as species.
Unfinest Hour, Brendan Simms
This devastating critique of the UK’s inaction in the Bosnian war of the 1990s made a convincing case that sometimes the use of lethal force can be a more ethical choice than standing by and watching terrible things happen. Coming so soon after the horrific genocide in Rwanda, this made me something of a liberal interventionist. Subsequent events in Iraq and elsewhere have shown that the converse can be true and outside intervention can make things worse. Reflecting on all of this and more suggests three lessons more generalisable to my interest in decision-making. First, doing nothing is a choice, whether explicit or not, that has consequences – sometimes awful. Second, the consequences of our (in)action are always uncertain and in complex situations, highly so. Third, despite this, we should still make big decisions based on careful consideration, not gut instinct or wishful thinking. This means more than informed best guesses about the future and should include considering the full range of best and worst case scenarios.
The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, Stephen Covey
This was the first self help book I read and I picked it up expecting advice on how to get more done in less time, but actually the book has a much deeper conception of effectiveness. Covey is much more interested – or at least interesting – on the importance of understanding your values and embedding them in what you do. Two ideas have particularly stayed with me. First, his maxim to ‘start with the end in mind’, which I have found fantastic advice, both at the level of your life, and for individual projects. Second, to focus your energy on what you can control, and not to worry about the rest.
Getting Things Done, David Allen
Now this one really is about personal productivity, and it’s a gem. There’s no getting away from it: this a deeply nerdy book that does exactly what it says on the tin, laying out an exhaustive system for getting more stuff done. I was utterly riveted by it (really) and rushed to try out his ideas. Some didn’t work for me, but I still use others today. The biggest lesson for me was that getting everything ‘out of your head’ and into an external system (basically a giant, ongoing, to-do list) can give a great sense of relief and free up your brain to do real thinking. I also internalised his ‘natural project planning method’, in which there are two critical things to know for each project: the end goal (see ‘start with the end in mind’), and; (2) your very next step. He hammers home that figuring out the very next step is the key to personal productivity. Your traditional to-do list might feature something like ‘Christmas present for Sonny’, which encompasses several steps. Allen says you will get nowhere with this. You should first figure out the very first step – which might be to ring your sister to find out what your nephew would like. Moving from vague undertakings to specific next steps is all part of clearing your head.
Writing this post has been a fascinating process, seeing how the insights from one book reappear in others in different forms. It has also helped me understand how my views and analytical toolkit have changed over time. Now over to you – which books have changed you?